Risking Friendship for Love
In love with your best friend?What should you do?
Do you really have to or need to risk being friends just because both or even one of you fell for the other?
I think friendship should not be risked for anything else especially for love.I even think that friendship makes the bond you have more stronger,so why risk it?After all everything started with friendship so if it ends it should also end with the way it started.And if it also progresses then friendship still remains.I wonder why there are people who think that the friendship they share right now would be risked if they would fall in love with each other.Why do you have to risk a thing that should not or is not needed to risk just to fall in love.It is better to keep the friendship and make it stronger so that even though the person does not have feelings for you you would still stay even just as friends.Through friends we learn things we do not know...but sometimes we just fall for them along the way unexpectedly.In loving a person you just do not know when or whom..just expect that things would slowly change..just as they say "expect the unexpected",anything might happen beyond our control and without us knowing.But everything happens for a reason.So if you are wondering why you fell in love with that person then just ask God for answers,He knows it all!It is His will to make things happen.
On the road of friendship there are such times that best friends or even just close friends fall for each other and most of the time that really happens.I know some expected that they would just be friends and make that friendship of theirs more stronger..but what happens is their friendship blossoms into something else..Sometimes you just can't predict what would happen next..so..Taddah..Love Love has come their way..based on my experience..hehehe..i can really relate to the story or to the idea behind the topic..hehehe..above is what my opinion really is.if others would think the other way around then that already is their opinion.After all not all of us have the same opinions or should I say everyone has different opinions on different things so it is up for the person on what he or she really thinks.
In life things like this really happen..when you need to make decisions that would matter a lot and would or can change your life..but sometimes when we already have decided on what we really want to happen,we realize that we made the wrong decision and we regret.That is why before deciding we should think things over and over and make sure that that is what we really want so that we would not regret our decisions afterwards.Me?!What I did was I decide not to risk the friendship because i know that with it I would not have a hard time understanding the person because we are still friends..i have this friend of mine who really likes her friend or should I say who is already in love with that friend of hers..but the sad thing there is when that friend of hers knew that she was already in love with him or likes him he went away..without any notice and would not treat her the way as he treated her when they where still close..after he knew what the girl felt for him he would not even talk to her or even smile when they see each other..as if he does not know her..i feel pity to that friend of mine..Why is it her fault that it is him to whom she fell in love with?She did not tell her heart to love that person..But still I don't blame him for going away..maybe he just is not comfortable anymore to be with her after knowing.
To all the friends out there may you know what to do best when things like this happen..God bless!!!
